This Is My Story Solomon Akiyesi Actor Who Married Three Different Ladies

This is positively very captivating, Nollywood artist Solomon Akiyesi whose other half disrupted his wedding to a untrained peer of the realm at a church in Lagos a moment ago has at last opened up on what led him voguish countless marriages:* I respected Ezinne, my beat other half, but she was double-crossing, pleasure-seeking.* If I hadn't no more Lillian, my minute other half, I would convey permanent suicide* Uloma gives me true love, inner joyApproach his true life confessions underside so you can understand his story...On Saturday, April 13, Nigerians were bowled over to the same degree the assumed wedding of Nollywood artist, Mr. Solomon Akiyesi, to Ms Uloma Agwu, turned voguish a prime dishonor in Lagos.The celebratory, which was steal place at the Overcomer's Foundation Outreach in Aguda, Surulere, was shortened to the same degree Solomon's dutiful other half, Lillian, stormed the church with some ancestors members, creating a catch sight of and fault-finding the groom-to-be of abandoning her at home in Conceal Harcourt for instance he was full of beans, plotting an evil wedding in Lagos.It took the bureau of policemen to recover sanity. The wedding was in due course cancelled by the Pervasive Manager of the Overcomers Religious Foundation Outreach, Bishop N.E. Moses.To the same extent then, many Nigerians convey taken to the convivial media, raining unprintable invectives on the Nollywood artist, who was made-up to convey been conjugal lookalike to the fore his inexperienced spoiled seek. In a chat with Manuscript Sun, Solomon tells his own story, explaining why he resolute to stance the whereabouts that he took, concerning his nuptial life. Excerpts: Departed the rest one week, hell has been let careless on me.I've not entirely suffered oral attacks, but as well vituperations and present fisticuffs, all because of recent having no effect seek of possibility at my advance towards achieving that which I guilelessly and passionately desire - a tranquil home and ancestors. Sociable grid sites and blogs convey been saturated with how I no more Lilian, my "pregnant" other half, to get hitched Uloma, my Lagos "mistress" whom they as well claimed was pregnant for me. Nonbeing can be further than from the truth.Absolutely a mad or cursed man would morally discard his pregnant other half and escaped with recent one. And lest I grieve for, I taunt you, as you read this, to convey an open sensitivity to keep your mind on to that which is true preferably of steal sides and jumping voguish willful conclusions with its guide willful violence and bad-mannered commentaries about how Solomon is discipline his life and how he is not. I'm not asking for commiseration or demanding to buy anybody's love at this time.This is my life. If at my age I don't know what I necessity, then I may fair-haired farm the dumb ass that I've been called a cut above and a cut above once again. I don't notion I force everyone to submit me any lecturing on how I have to teaching my human rights.For the record, I never planned on marrying more than one other half. And not the same the recurrent ensemble I've been labelled, I had dreamt and planned a congenial home and ancestors.And my look for for this dates back to 2003 behind schedule I had stirred voguish Conceal Harcourt. I immediately reputation down with Ezinne, my academic world days girlfriend, whom I ran voguish in Conceal Harcourt indoors her Declare Less significant Help. As opportunity had it, we couldn't help reliving old grow old and one thing led to recent. One burial chamber, rainy Thursday night in October, 2002, Ezinne came to inform me that she was pregnant.It was as far as I was concerned, a earth-shaking try to the new life I was living; rap music, cars, money and women. So, I told her the pregnancy was unacceptable to me. Besides, I entirely fair-haired started working and de rigueur method. But months sophisticated, Ezinne was to inform me that she was rapture a pamper girl.And knowing my corral to pamper girls and not wanting to ever convey a pamper float up wedlock, I repented and altered my thuggish ways and asked her to get hitched me, more so that I was set tolerable in every consequence. Or so I said.And so, one day in April, 2003, I hired a hall and invited a minister to come head at my marriage with Ezinne and bless our rings. All done, we went home and started as ensemble and other half. God, the graphic designer, knew how glad I was and looked invasive to a please home. Nevertheless, five days behind schedule that marriage, I called my new other half on my way from work to ask what was up for dinner and she told me she had been in the hospice.I immediate to the hospice and was told by Ezinne that she lost the pamper. I got her discharged and took her home. But I was good defunct at the loss of a pamper I had conventional so extreme. Four days sophisticated, I asked my other half if she actually saw the dead pamper. She responded by saying the doctor brought it but she gave be in charge for it to be hidden because she may possibly not feel about the become aware of. Robotically, I called the doctor - both to thank him and to funding because he wasn't something like to the same degree I went to acquire her home. What time thanking the doctor, I asked of the sex of my dead pamper.The doctor didn't argument for at the same time as six seconds. I asked him the precise meditate once again and he made-up he's been feverish in his spirit and that he may possibly no longer tall tale the fact that donate was no pamper intermediate Ezinne and that nobody at the same time as miscarriage happened in his hospice. I challenged him once again and asked if he was not the precise participate, who confirmed her pregnant and that Ezinne had been attending antenatal in his hospice.He responded that he had not set his eyes on Ezinne since October of the ahead day. Meanwhile, Ezinne had forever taken money from me for antenatal and had even shopped for the baby! It then became solid to me that this was a coincidence all together.Sadly tolerable, Ezinne denied any umbrage. For three existence, I receptive opportunities for Ezinne to morally method me the truth but she never took beneficial of any of the opportunities. Alas! She was not pregnant. I resolute to witness for my part and took her for HSG wherever it was naked that donate were no fallopian tubes in her and that donate was group of ahead undertaking of the uterus. I alone probed aid and found out with group that Ezinne had a workstation abortion in 1992 that resulted in the gap and major removal of her womb and tubes.My main pain was not what I found out but the fact that Ezinne hid all this from me all these existence and was but having the status of bargain basement priced with the truth even to the same degree confronted with impressively evidence! In annoyance, I stirred out of the house but not to the fore steal her to her mum in hunt of the truth.Reliable the mum corroborated what Ezinne gave as guard for the speckle that runs from her navel down to her pubic realm, i.e. she was operated upon due to menstrual irregularities. I then resolute to prevent out for good. Period I was out, my blueprint with Lillian whom I had common existence already grew.I was forever leaving to see her in Enugu. I then got me recent terrace and Lillian came something like to be more precise often too. Leisurely Lillian grew from that undeveloped girl I was specifically limit in her credo, voguish a set, adroit and quick untrained person. So, having taken my inhabit to Ezinne's place for the debauchery of the marriage - since we did entirely traditional marriage - I anticipated to Lillian.And, in 2007, we proceeded to the registry for marriage. And that was the day her start off started alarming me. He insisted Lillian was not assumed to go home with me. For two existence, he cut discussion with me. Presently behind schedule the marriage, my businesses ran voguish a crises and my luxurious life nose-dived.Hand over was enormous loss in my funds. In my travail, Lillian's start off went to the adjust and told them to proposition terminally with me because I was an "spontaneous son-in-law". While the challenges standoffish getting higher and seeing my life was at ultimatum behind schedule I was weakly crack, I no more payment to stop up outmoded. In 2010, I slowly re-emerged and we started prudence our call together once again.Reliable while I tried to assuage down once again, I found that the centre may possibly no longer restrain, as Lillian had metamorphosed voguish a nag and had acquired a fire writing with which she talked me down and reigned curses on me at any undeveloped gamble. Hand over was no week we didn't convey a prime fight, whether I was home or not.At some symbol, she became priestly. And having found her way voguish Winners Chapel, she suggested to me one day that it was cover we took our marriage to God since we hadn't a absolutely wedding. She made-up her church pastors were tough to help in blessing our marriage so donate may possibly be a swap. To this, I be bounded by. She made-up she would love for us to wear wedding costumes for the intent of photographs. To this I as well consented. And so, to Winners Chapel we went and were blessed and certificated.But it was as if that blessing was what someone was waiting for to the fore they would try the tweet that would conduct me voguish the hall of pain. Lillian became plundering.You would see minor ingredients of marriage entirely to the same degree I may possibly contract her hush. While Lillian's hush was compromised, she would take off me and method me my life history in plain essentials and homily me on what Mr. A and B convey done for their wives that I'm not athletic to do.It's even sink to the same degree I try to recollect her of the delayed slight that I laboured inflexibly to tall tale her please. While she told me that donate was nobody I had done in the slight that everybody couldn't convey done. Presume sacrificing all you've got, in addition to roughly your life, for someone who would method you it's no big proposition and that any other participate may possibly convey done what you did. And then, foolishly, she enviable me to set off my passing career or she would division me. My phones were forever her best companions at night. If she was not reading my texts, she was in my facebook or BBM.I had no send off for. My best twinkling was whenever I had to discard home for work. And behind schedule work I never enviable to go back home. On a trip back home one day ago, I was praying that my plane have to clash and I die preferably of leaving home. Reliable to the same degree I was extreme home, I was under strong bait to ram voguish oncoming vehicles preferably of leaving home.It was either that a desire list of class would be waiting for me or an such as longer list of questions about whom I had been online with and whom I had been inclination and not inclination.After that on the flash was a assumed father-in-law, who claimed he regretted the marriage because he wasn't realization whatsoever from it and that I entirely came to hammer the love that existed in their ancestors to the fore the marriage. So, my joy knew no outer reaches to the same degree Lillian told me rest day that she was pregnant. For me, it was a good thing. Perhaps the pamper would stance her fuss departure from me at rest. After that the heat started once again. I prerequisite give away N2 million for her to scatter her pamper, even while she knows my wealth and its starting point. While her order got to a front and to put away the precise road I travelled with Ezinne, I took Lillian to a gynaecologist. A scan was run on her and the develop was avowed to the fore the two of us that she was not pregnant.This was behind schedule she told me that she had done an independent scan and that she was rapture triplets! Reliable with the medical album, Lillian never stopped up her plead for N2 million and money for pamper shopping. I dead up take pains a incomplete cuddle in January. Yet she would wake me up at 2am to ask me of my campaign to expansion N2 million for her, even for instance I was bedridden with cuddle.I knew then that I was leaving to die in that marriage and had to do something about it. Ladies and gentlemen, this is about my life. If what greeted the Internet and press was that I died, demanding to allure Lillian and my marriage, inhabit would but disparage me and ask why I didn't stance a rung. And steal a rung I tried to do but I did not do it heading.I tried to play due scheme to put away raw everyone. On top so, I did not convey the political and indicative of force to ask for division. State, inhabit, division is not at the same time as leaving to a grocery store wherever you go to pay your money and come back with a bag full. Anything would convey been my bottom for divorce? I have to as well relieve that I may possibly not find an answer to what would make to Lillian if I asked her to go because I was more than a ensemble to her.So, I foot-dragged to the symbol of steal the easy way out. And the easy way is not all told the best way as I found out on Saturday, April 13.Uloma did not fair-haired rear voguish the picture to "snatch" Solomon from Lillian. Uloma has been my friend since 2006. We met once again in 2009 at the peak of my ballet company difficulty and convey been seeing each other afterwards. Bluntly, I was swept departure by the love, understanding and the tranquil performance Uloma proffered even as a friend, far from the opposites I was realization back home. The way Uloma treated me was the receptive requirements any man longed for in a other half. So, I was forever discipline to her whenever Lillian lit her fires.So, I asked for my part why I couldn't get hitched her. Far from the evil rumour that I enviable to get hitched Uloma because of her money, I enviable to get hitched Uloma to push a tidy in her life and make her please and fulfill because this person with a average of gold who has impacted many lives deserved to be please.If that was what I may possibly ever do to encourage some hush in her life. If donate was leaving to be any straight count for me, it would convey been send off for of sensitivity and its guide desire life, not her money or any physical or trouble gains. I'm not a languid man.Away from having the status of an artist, I convey been in ballet company for roughly fifteen existence. Years back, to the same degree I poured millions of naira on unexpected cars and a upper-class house in Conceal Harcourt, Uloma was a seventy thousand naira rebirth staff in Sterling Stack. In this day and age, even if Uloma gave me all her return from wherever she now works, it won't be tolerable to put Internet privilege in my tablets and phones. Get-together even posted that I made-up I would convey 'hammered' if I had conjugal Uloma.Anything may possibly I maybe gain? Uloma wasn't upset to the symbol of despair to pay a man to get hitched her. Hand over was no exceptional for everyone who conjugal her. She does not own an garden or whatsoever willed to her by everyone that I was discipline behind schedule. Uloma is not the son of any cream man or top elected official. She's as extreme a hustler as I am.Ok, yes, simply, perhaps I actually would convey 'hammered' desire life, gala, inner joy, a deem of having the status of respected and desire life. I as well would convey 'hammered' having her sisters as my sisters because they love me at the same time as their own brother - a far cry from what my own inhabit submit me.If I had conjugal Uloma, I know I would convey had a good money whenever I died because I've forever been upset that at my level of despondency, whenever I die, my carcass would in all probability convey rotten to the fore my inhabit would find me. I beg to be respected and meet. Nobody to drop a dime on my own.No one ever cared about me. I convey forever been piecemeal and hardworking too. From way back, my joys, my sorrows I convey forever swallowed piecemeal. But Uloma was the entirely participate who now listened to my average and implicit wherever I was coming from. So to say any of my spoiled marriages was for money is morally stupid and cranky. The beat car Ezinne ever stuff and financing for her beat seek at ballet company all came from me.Lillian was not innate with a silver dollop. Her start off is entirely a retired seafaring endorsed and the rest time I checkered he had no wealth qualified to his name. On her 18th bicentennial, I bought Lillian an unexpected Corolla car. At 300 level in school, I gave her a Mercedes Benz.After that she graduated with an LS400 Lexus. This is sideways from a copious terrace and school bills that God hand-me-down me to help her stance wisdom of. So, who between these would I convey conjugal for money? Uloma stood out because she's not whole my pain even to the same degree it was because of me and that explains why it was a leaden duty telling her Lillian was but in my tracks.I couldn't convey deliberately gone out of my way to hurt Uloma, because that force be morally committing suicide. Hurt Uloma is at the same time as waging war vs. a nation. Is it her legion of admirers I force convey to crusade with or her nation of die-hard lovers who force be tumbling a cut above each other to get a reduce to pulp of flesh?I wouldn't submit hurt for the love and delicate Uloma and her ancestors gave me. Fatefully the precise scandals I said I was preventing by not feint what all and sundry is saying I would convey done is now the precise thing staring me in the role, and all and sundry is sink hurt.And very all, my own life is now terminally at ultimatum because I feared raw everyone. I ask all concerned to allure bind their swords of provoke and find it in their hearts to absolve me. I force make sport as extreme as the tenderness of God permits me. It's never too delayed to begin once again as far as God keeps us all dazzling.I'm a man on a deputation for a tranquil marriage, a good home and ancestors life. I map my despair took good reasoning off me. Another time, I am cruelly and now contrite. I thank my friends who convey stood by me put away this trial. Your soothing words are at the same time as lights on my dark path.And for the censorious few, I taunt you; work with the truth for instance the Almighty fixes that which went excess in my life.BY DAMIETE BRAIDE